Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Whats your self esteeme like

There are so many things that contribute to a person's self esteem. One of the biggest things that effects us is our body image.
Body image is the mental picture a person has of his or her body. It includes associated feelings, thoughts, and behaviours. Body image is learned. It is affected by a person's environment, the people in that environment, and social attitudes about size and appearance. Body image is what our eyes see when they look in the mirror - Self esteem is how we feel about what we see when we look in the mirror.

Do you have an accurate reflection of yourself?

What are some things that influence our self esteem
• The way body image/self esteem has been modeled by our Mothers/Sisters
• Social attitudes
• Cultural beliefs
• Media
• Our emotional health/physical health
• Wanting to fit in
• Physical activity
• Relationships with family and friends

Be gentle on yourself - You are perfect just as you are!

* Don’t punish yourself emotionally or physically
* Be patient and kind to yourself
* Celebrate other people’s beauty and achievements
* Allow others to encourage you
* Believe you are valuable at all times
* Most of all be GLAD YOU ARE YOU!



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Thursday, October 1, 2009

You can never be too kind

It's so easy to view people through our filters or to project our beliefs on to them. Wouldn't it be nicer if we tried to view others through a filter of empathy or grace. How about looking past other peoples unpleasant behaviours and try to deliver kindness and see what happens.